Thank you to all of you who have commented. I means so much :)
On a posting note... For those of you out there that are using MSN Mssgr and the audio conversation option there are better alternatives. May I introduce Skype! A truly FREE VOIP option. Chris and I used it last night after I have been hearing about it lots, and we are glad we did. Clear like a regular phone conversation, no lag like in MSN and easy to use. He was on a wireless connection in PA and it wasn't the best connection for MSN but we had no issues with Skype.
Try it, you will love it ... I promise.